J and I are writing our own vows. Not exactly an original concept, so I want to make sure they're spot on and reflect what's been important to us. One of the reasons I haven't been married yet is that I can't stand the idea of breaking a promise and seeing that look in his eye. With that in mind, I need to make sure the vows are keep-able so that I don't totally romance the pooch. These declarations may not be made of champagne and roses, but they need to be real and mine. Here are a few for practice:
I promise to put on the emergency break in your car every time I drive it.
I vow to clean the kitty box and do the dishes when you're sick, even if it's your turn.
I promise to unclot the shower drain when the mystery gunk monster tries to nest in our pipes.
I promise to rewind the VHS tapes when I'm done with them.
I vow that I will never compare you to past loves, because they didn't work out so well, did they?
I promise to listen to what you don't say.
I vow to keep an open mind when Adam and Jamie challenge my beliefs.
I promise to be your buffer when we're in a situation where you might have to talk to someone new.
I vow to live one day longer than you so that you don't have to do what you're most afraid of.
When it comes time to actually write and say the real ones, I'm excited to see what I'll say. Because right now, it's anyone's bet.
2 comments:
I like that last one. Very touching.
I liked "I promise to listen to what you don't say" All men should be required to promise that opr no marriage license. Hell, everyone should.
Post a Comment